Your partner refuses to take responsibility for their actions or apologize when they've done something wrong.
You feel like your partner is constantly trying to one-up you or make you feel inferior.
Your partner constantly demands your attention or reassurance, even when it's inconvenient or unreasonable.
Your partner frequently lies or keeps important information from you.
Your partner tries to make you feel guilty or ashamed for things that are out of your control.
You feel like your partner is trying to isolate you from friends and family, either by discouraging you from spending time with them or by being hostile or jealous towards them.
Your partner becomes angry or aggressive when things don't go their way.
Your partner frequently gaslights you, denying things they said or did or making you doubt your own perceptions and memories.
You feel like you're walking on eggshells around your partner, afraid to say or do anything that might upset them.
1Your partner tries to control you and make decisions for you without your input.
Your partner constantly criticizes or belittles you, either in private or in front of others.
You feel drained and exhausted after spending time with your partner.