I hate online dating, I really do. The reason I hate it so much is because there’s absolutely no way to tell how someone really is without meeting up with them.
Guys who seem normal at the start turn horrid once you reject them. Others who seem a bit kooky end up being great dates. Simply put, it’s an infuriating grab bag of people, and it was bad enough for me to give it up.
One of the worst things about the online dating scene is the sheer number of people who ghost you.
Even not getting a reply to your message, as a girl, can be kind of jarring.
This is doubly true if the guy in question seemed like a good match for you or seemed like he was interested.
If you’re wondering why guys don't reply and what could be causing them to disappear from your messages, the following reasons may explain things away.
This stuff ticks me off because it stings being written off due to something like your physique.
Lord knows I’ve had my crazy moments in dating, but hasn’t everyone?
Interest and attraction are unavoidable. You can't sit there and tell him to like you—it doesn't work. Despite the unpleasant news, you must go on.
Everyone experiences it. After a week without reading your mailbox, BAM! A hottie. He'll move on if you don't respond quickly. You would too, right?